message in a bottle

Tuesday, January 09, 2007

sore thumb

You know the phrase "sticking out like a sore thumb"? well, I have just THAT in my life right now (actually, I couldn't care less before but now it's just a pain in the ass)...

Ever have that encounter with one of your guy's "girl" friends, a so-called friendship that started back when they were mere adolescents trying to get grasp of the world?

Yep, of course, my life couldn't get much colorful without me having to experience THAT very thing, right now.

There was this ONE girl who at the very start of my relationship distinctly made everything I feel towards her uncomfortable and eerie.

It's freakin weird why she has to make me feel like I'm being scrutinized under a microscope every time (seldom that is) I would get to meet her.

Well, it doesn't surprise me that she's like that coz when you meet her, she would instantly come across as the type who thinks extremely highly of herself even if she is big and unattractive (yep, insert MAJOR INSECURITY here and that's the brutal fact).

Since I am not surprised she would act that way towards her friends' girlfriends and since I've met a gazilion girls like her in my life, I didn't pay attention to her sorry-ass life. I actually pitied her since that's all she is capable of doing with her life. She is the type who make the lives of her friends' girlfriends a nightmare just so to compensate her lack of experiencing a great romantic relationship because her being a maltida comes right off the bat.

So I never care for her pathetic-ness, until now that I realized she is out to get us...

Lately, she's been sticking out like a sore thumb in my life much less because that's her pure and sole intention. She would text my boyfriend as if I am not there with him. She would make this elaborate testimonials threatening each and everyone of the girlfriends as if she's the sole person dictating what her friends' need to do with their lives.

Just to show you how pathetic she is, here is one of the testimonials:
  • Hindi ko alam kung pano nabuo ang ___ pero may chismis na nagumpisa daw yan nung may isang member na nagpaiyak sa gf (xgf na ngayon thank God) ng ___ na hindi naman on purpose. sa totoo lang ung nagpaiyak ang pinaka mabait sa kanilang lahat kaya imposibleng mangyari yun. hindi talaga salbahe ang ___.. Protective lang sa mga kaibigan nila. hindi naman sila parating nag-o-over react proactive lang. hindi naman sila gumagawa ng issue nag-a-analyze lang ng situation. mahal na mahal nila ang mga ___ kaya kung sino mang bruha ang mangangahas na lokohin ang ___.. Goodluck! Minsan nakakaintimidate silang tingnan lalu na pagsama sama sila kasi para silang mangaapi.. pero hindi totoo yan. actually welcome lahat pumunta sa mga party nila basta lang nasa ayos ung guest. kasi kung wala sa ayos at nakakabwiset.. Goodluck ulit!
And to top it all off, the girl REALLY has NO manners AT ALL. There this one time I'm on the phone with my guy and she INTENTIONALLY turned the volume of the car radio up (she insisted of joining my guy and his best friend to a hospital visit...what a loser).

Hello, wake up sweetie. People have moved on. Your friends have WAY moved on with their lives, and guess what, you're still stuck there. Get a life and stop pestering other people. It's a pity that you can never be happy for your so-called friends.

Oh, and guess what, I am here for good so you can kiss your hopes goodbye.