message in a bottle

Thursday, October 05, 2006

mr. maybe

People often wonder if they really are meant to find the right person to be with. Some even devotes most of their time finding this out.

Some go out of their way to join dating clubs and organizations....just to find Mr. Right.

But is there really a Mr. Right? Is there really that amazing someone every girl is waiting for? A knight in shining armor?

I personally believe (and this is just me talking) that this Mr. Right thing is a big kabooosh. There is no such thing. There is no such person. It's just a figment of every girl's imagination, brought about by the idealistic society we are accustomed to. Even as young as 7 years old who watches prime time soaps is waiting for her Mr. Right. Geez.

When you are in a relationship (a stable and long term one), you would realize that Mr. Right does not exist. You try to make your partner your Mr. Right and some if not most of the times, you just end up getting disappointed because he never will be, nor does he want to be.

You'll just end up expecting things that will never happen, moments that will never come, devotions that will never be mustered, quotes that will never be said.

You'll end up getting your pillow wet at night, letting the tears flush down the hurt, disappointment and longingness for that person to finally come and sweep you off your feet.

And then you wake up and you're back to reality, picking up the pieces and trying your hardest to mold them together again.

6 comment(s):

nice encouragement for me and lei. hehehe

By TR, at 2:32 PM

hay, buhay pag-ibig talaga

By starry-eyed lean, at 3:57 PM

there may not be a mr. right, but aren't we entitled to be happy in our relationships? we can only take so much pain, and if you experience it more often than happiness, don't you think it's time to really think about it?

you know how i feel about this and i just want to see you happy. you know you deserve it. :)

By Idj, at 12:44 PM

thanks idj :)

By starry-eyed lean, at 5:03 PM

Waw. Saan galing ito??

By Ganns, at 5:38 PM

hi ganns! how's you na?!! Miss ka na namin!

By starry-eyed lean, at 6:14 PM